The Ultimate Guide to Planning a Multi-Day Wedding Weekend in the St. Louis Countryside
For many couples planning a wedding in 2026, a five-hour reception simply isn’t enough time to celebrate a lifetime of love. As “slow weddings” and multi-day wedding weekends become the gold standard for modern couples, Berkshire Ridge in Blackwell, Missouri is leading the way with all-inclusive weekend wedding packages designed for connection, comfort, and unforgettable moments. From sunset views that stop you in your tracks to a dance floor glowing under our custom rotating glass disco ball, Berkshire Ridge transforms your wedding into an elegant, unforgettable experience.
What sets Berkshire Ridge apart are the moments—the kind of wedding details guests remember forever and that your photographer captures in jaw-dropping ways.
Because at Berkshire Ridge, the celebration doesn’t start and stop in a single room. Your wedding weekend flows across the whole property: from quiet morning getting-ready moments in the suite building… to golden hour on the ridge… to heartfelt ceremonies with breathtaking backdrops… and finally, to a reception that turns into a full-blown experience.
And then there’s our signature “only at Berkshire Ridge” moment: the instant your guests look up as the custom rotating glass disco ball drops down from the glass cupola, sparkling above the dance floor as the party officially begins.
Nestled just south of St. Louis on a breathtaking 150-acre private farm, Berkshire Ridge offers more than a ceremony site—it offers a destination-style retreat where your closest people can relax, reconnect, and truly celebrate from Friday rehearsal to Sunday morning brunch. If you’ve been searching for a St. Louis wedding weekend venue that blends rustic countryside charm with modern luxuries—like our signature glass disco ball, two-level patio with fire cocktail tables, and a 1,500 sq. ft. Bridal Suite & Groom Quarters building—you’ve found your ridge.
Why Choose a Weekend Wedding Package?
One of the biggest wedding trends for 2026 is intentionality—and couples are ditching the rush in favor of time, presence, and meaningful moments.
A multi-day wedding weekend gives you space to actually enjoy what you worked so hard to plan. Instead of cramming everything into one frantic day, a weekend rental lets your wedding unfold naturally:
Friday: host a welcome party or rehearsal dinner on our stamped concrete patio under the string lights
Saturday: enjoy a relaxed wedding day without the stress of tight setup windows
Sunday: treat your favorite people to a slow morning brunch overlooking the lake
By choosing a Missouri weekend wedding venue near St. Louis, you also give guests something they LOVE: a true countryside getaway, without the hassle of long travel. Berkshire Ridge is close enough to the city (about 60 miles), but it feels like a whole different world.
The Luxury of Space: Our 1,500 Sq. Ft. Suite Building
Most venues offer a small “bridal room.” We believe you deserve a home base—a place that feels private, comfortable, and beautifully designed for a once-in-a-lifetime weekend.
That’s why Berkshire Ridge includes a separate, dedicated 1,500 sq. ft. suite building with both the Bridal Suite and Groom Quarters, giving your entire wedding party room to spread out, settle in, and enjoy the getting-ready experience.
For the Bride
Think bright natural light, photo-ready details, and a calm environment that feels more like a boutique hotel suite than a venue back room:
Gorgeous natural lighting for makeup and photos
Elegant mirrors and carefully designed décor
Private restrooms for comfort and convenience
For the Groom
The Groom Quarters bring the perfect blend of laid-back and elevated:
A comfortable space designed for relaxing, laughing, and settling the nerves
Gaming table (poker, anyone?)
Large flat-screen TV to keep the nerves at bay
Instead of feeling rushed and crowded, everyone can get ready with space to breathe—exactly how wedding mornings should feel.
From Sunset Views to the Custom Rotating Disco Ball
What sets Berkshire Ridge apart isn’t just the space—it’s the moments. The kind of moments guests remember forever, and the kind your photographer captures in jaw-dropping ways.
Here, the weekend is filled with unforgettable scenes: golden hour drifting across the ridge, laughter under the string lights, and that quiet hush right before you walk down the aisle. Then the energy shifts—the doors open, the music starts, and our custom rotating glass disco ball drops from the glass cupola, turning your reception into a celebration that feels straight out of a movie.
This isn’t a “pretty venue.” This is an experience.
The Ceremony
At Berkshire Ridge, your ceremony isn’t limited to one spot. You can choose the setting that fits your vision best:
Our woodland ceremony site, with the lake and fountain as a peaceful backdrop
The grassy meadow, with wide open spaces and big Missouri skies
Our stamped concrete patio, glowing under string lights for a romantic outdoor ceremony
And if weather ever changes plans, no worries—our indoor space makes for a stunning ceremony too, with beautiful views and an elevated, elegant feel.
The kind of settings that makes guests take a deep breath and say, “Wow.”
The Party
A huge custom made disco ball drops from the glass copula to cascade lights all over the dance floor at Berkshire Ridge Wedding Venue.
When it’s time to celebrate, the energy shifts in the best way.
Inside our reception space, you’ll find soaring custom wood ceilings, gorgeous chandeliers, and warm elevated finishes designed to feel luxurious and photograph beautifully. And then the showstopper: our custom rotating glass disco ball drops down from the glass cupola, transforming the entire room into a glowing dance floor.
It’s not just a reception—it’s an experience.
When the Sun Sets…
Noah and Samantha - Where the sunset becomes part of the love story.
When the sun starts to set, Berkshire Ridge truly comes alive. The string lights glow across the patio, lanterns flicker beneath the oak tree, and the entire property shifts into that soft, romantic “wedding movie” kind of lighting.
Even the walk to the ceremony area becomes part of the experience—our lit pathways create a magical, candlelit-style feel that guests adore and photographers can’t stop capturing. It’s the kind of evening that feels warm, intimate, and unforgettable.
Schedule Your Tour of Berkshire Ridge
Planning a multi-day wedding weekend isn’t just a trend—it’s a way to slow down and truly soak in every moment with the people you love most. If you’re looking for a St. Louis weekend wedding venue that feels like a luxury getaway in the countryside, we’d love to show you Berkshire Ridge.
✨ Our packages and pricing are listed on our website, and 2026 weekends are booking quickly—so if Berkshire Ridge feels like “the one,” reach out to schedule a tour and check availability.
From Our Venue to Your Love Story - Kim
Berkshire Ridge is a locally owned and operated business just south of St. Louis, Missouri. We sincerely hope to encourage our couples to learn more about the value and importance of choosing a locally owned business when it is time to book your wedding venue and vendors. Locally owned venues will offer a high level of hospitality, attentive communication and a desire to ensure your wedding exceeds expectations. We are thrilled to support wedding venue owners from around the country with a shout out in our blog!
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