💍 Just Engaged? Here’s Exactly What to Do Next
You’re engaged — take a deep breath and soak it in, because this is one of the sweetest seasons of your life. 💍✨
And soon…
Your phone starts buzzing.
Friends start asking questions.
Pinterest boards explode.
And suddenly you’re thinking…
“Okay… now what?”
Take a breath, beautiful bride. I’ve got you 🤍
1️⃣ Celebrate (Before You Plan Anything)
Before diving into logistics, soak this in.
• Share the news
• Pop the champagne
• Take photos
• Enjoy being engaged
This season is fleeting — don’t rush past it.
2️⃣ Talk Budget (Yes, Early!)
Not glamorous.
Absolutely necessary.
Have a relaxed, honest conversation about:
• Overall comfort range
• Who is contributing
• Priorities (venue? food? band? décor?)
👉 This prevents stress later.
3️⃣ Draft a Guest Count Estimate
Not the final list — just a ballpark.
Why it matters:
✅ Determines venue size
✅ Impacts catering cost
✅ Influences layout & rentals
Categories help:
• Must invite
• Would love to invite
• If space allows
4️⃣ Choose a Season or Date Range
Exact date optional for now.
Think:
🌸 Spring blooms
☀️ Summer sunsets
🍁 Fall colors
❄️ Winter romance
Your season shapes:
• Venue availability
• Décor style
• Photography lighting
• Attire comfort
5️⃣ Start Touring Venues (Fun Part!)
This is where dreams start becoming real ✨
When touring, consider:
• Capacity
• Indoor / outdoor options
• Rain plan
• Included amenities
• Overall vibe
If you’re searching for a Missouri wedding venue near St. Louis, touring early gives you the best selection.
6️⃣ Lock Your Big Three Vendors
Once venue + date are secured:
💄 Photographer
🎶 Entertainment (DJ / band)
🍽 Catering
These book quickly — especially photographers.
7️⃣ Enjoy the Process 🤍
Wedding planning should feel exciting, not overwhelming.
Remember:
✨ There is no “perfect” timeline
✨ There is no “right” way
✨ Your wedding = your story
✨ A Little Insider Advice From a Venue Owner
Here’s what I’ve learned:
The happiest couples…
✔️ Stay flexible
✔️ Focus on meaning over perfection
✔️ Protect the joy of the engagement season & Stay in the moments during their big day
🤍 Planning Your Missouri Wedding?
If you’re newly engaged and dreaming of:
• Scenic countryside views
• Indoor + outdoor options
• Stunning photo locations
• A venue filled with heart
We would love to welcome you to Berkshire Ridge.
Touring a venue in person is where everything starts to feel real 🤍
📅 Schedule a Tour
Come walk the patios.
See the ceremony spaces.
Stand under the chandeliers.
Message me with a few dates that work for you 🤍
From our Venue to Your Love Story - Kim
Berkshire Ridge is a locally owned and operated business just south of St. Louis, Missouri. We sincerely hope to encourage our couples to learn more about the value and importance of choosing a locally owned business when it is time to book your wedding venue and vendors. Locally owned venues will offer a high level of hospitality, attentive communication and a desire to ensure your wedding exceeds expectations. We are thrilled to support wedding venue owners from around the country with a shout out in our blog!